Mel Robbins
The ADHD Doctor: How to Focus, Stop Procrastinating, Manage Your Emotions, & Feel in Control
If you have ever been told that you are too emotional, sensitive, anxious, hormonal, disorganized, or simply not trying hard enough, this episode is for you.
There’s a chance, according to Mel’s expert guest today, that like Mel, that the root cause of what you’re struggling with is actually ADHD.
Today, Dr. Sasha Hamdani, MD, a board-certified psychiatrist and leading expert on ADHD, gives you the full and comprehensive explanation you deserve.
She shares that ADHD is not just about attention. It can affect your emotions, motivation, energy, sleep, appetite, relationships, and ability to handle the demands of everyday life.
And these symptoms often get completely missed in women and girls.
Mel gets deeply personal about being diagnosed at 47, the anxiety she experienced for decades that was due to untreated ADHD, and the emotional overwhelm she never realized was connected to ADHD.
Dr. Hamdani explains why ADHD is mistaken for anxiety, depression, OCD, burnout, or hormonal issues (this is why so many people spend years believing there is something wrong with them!).
This is the ultimate guide to adult ADHD.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
-Why ADHD is not just attention and focus; it’s also about regulating your mood, sleep, motivation, and energy.
-Why ADHD is so often missed in women and girls
-Why anxiety, depression, OCD, burnout, and ADHD are often confused (even by medical professionals)
-Why criticism feels so overwhelming for anyone with ADHD
-Why perfectionism, overworking, and people pleasing can be signs of ADHD
-What is happening inside the ADHD brain
-Why ADHD is not always a “superpower”
-The four critical steps to take if you think you or someone you love may have ADHD
-The medication, therapy, coaching, tools, and systems that may help ease symptoms of ADHD
-What you can start doing while you wait for professional support
-The difference between the way ADHD can look externally and how it can feel internally
-How hormonal changes during puberty, postpartum, and perimenopause can intensify ADHD symptoms
This is an episode about understanding your brain, recognizing lifelong patterns, and learning what kind of support may be available to you.
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In this episode:
00:00 Meet the Guest
02:32 What Are the Symptoms of ADHD?
07:15 Why ADHD Goes Undiagnosed in Women
10:09 Why Is ADHD So Hard to Diagnose?
13:50 What Does ADHD Do to the Brain?
22:10 The 3 Types of ADHD Explained
25:03 ADHD Symptoms in Girls and Women
28:38 Can ADHD Cause Anxiety and Depression?
31:52 What to Do If You Think You Have ADHD
36:36 ADHD Masking Explained
38:41 Is ADHD a Superpower?
41:31 What Is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) in ADHD?
50:56 The 3 Steps to Getting Proper ADHD Treatment
01:01:41 ADHD Tools You Can Start Using Now
01:04:09 Should You Get Tested for ADHD?
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Published Aug 20, 2026
